Yet, small Kids nowadays seems to be more arrogant and rude towards elders.I can tell that as my relatives have kids around the age.
and I can see a lot of those children outside.
Sometimes I can't bear their attitude.
One of the kid of my cousin, is a nasty small boy.
Even he is just a small kid, the parents shouldn't let them "crawl upon their head(s)"...
they just give them what he want and take away what he dislike....
sigh...this is not right....！ T.T
This boy is too close and too much to the latest technology...！
His mum gave all kinds of high-tech. appliance and he learn "to much" from the technology....
Yeah...too bad...!(as too many cook spoil the broth )
Toooo much bad thing(s)...[violence, bad wordS....!@#$%^&*....]
He is now just like a "Head" of his "gang".... a fear to most of his same-aged kids....he will threaten the kids to not friend him or bully the boy....
Now... he plays tantrums upon his parents if they doesn't satisfied his request
( just like a DUDLEY ).....haiz...!
Overall, "Battle Hymn of The Tiger Mother" will be a good choice to those who are now racking their brains, trying to find a solution on children-educating.
From the website I knew that it is not a book teaching us how to teach children
but it mentioned the how Chinese education differ from the Westerns.
Chinese encourage canning yet western encourage LOVE education
And the main point is I strongly agree about it
the Western children are always spoilt
Although I do not like parents using " violence" in educating children
being strict sometimes is useful, really....
it is true as discipline is the practice of training people to obey rules and orders and punishing them if they do not ....
it is a prerequisite of learning and teaching environment. a little punishment is necessary and essential. corporal punishment is the easiest and most effective way against the nasty, rebellious and revolting hardcore offence (disobedient children )...
as the saying goes, " spare the rod and spoil the child "....i agreed it, dun u...?
Anyway Is your mum a tiger mother?
HEY , no matter what the answer is, always remember that she will be the person who love you in the world^^
adapted and edited from < dun worry be happy >,
a blog of a friend of mine,
post on TUESDAY, MAY 31, 2011
Hey bro....just my point of view.
ReplyDeleteTo me, tiger mum is too scary, the so-called tiger teaching or training methods might haunted me for my entire life, i appreciated that i am who i am now,you are seeing and talking to me, yes..is me, the real one.
As for you, it might works or it happened just suit to your style and i believe you could achieve your gold in future, i strongly believe that.
因材施教。。Thanks my mum for loving me in Kungfu Panda's way...hahaha!!
Thank you
Kenny finally done his job as per your request..haha!!
ReplyDeleteI am not a mum, so i really have no idea how to educate one...hehe!!
Ya, no doubt discipline, focus, hardworking & persistence are the keywords to be successful in every aspects. But i would still prefer to believe 因材施教..everyone has its own way to love & to be loved, to train & to be trained to be a better person. As long as the core values are living with you always, you will excel at life!!
hehe^^
ReplyDeleteem....KungFu Panda's way is a good way too...
i dun "strongly" prefer Corporal punishment such as canning, yet i dun "strongly" disclaim the way of 因材施教( Individualized teaching )....!
As the matter of fact, i actually prefer self-studying and group study...
i would like if i can take a teacher as my friend so that we can exchange our knowledge....hihi^^
as the proverb in chinese goes; 学习不分先后，先到者为师。。。
^.^